Tuesday, October 09, 2012
Mid October Resolutions
Resolutions aren't often made at this time of year. And it's unlikely they have much impact, if any (after all, we can get things done by just doing it instead of resolving to do it.)
That said, a few incidents the past few months have made me think.
Let's resolve not to transfer our baggage onto someone else, wittingly or unwittingly. And especially to people who should not have anything to do with our own problems.
On the flip side, let us not take up unfair baggage just because we don't want to hurt anyone. Nice guys are good and all but perhaps the really great people know when to be heartless because, sometimes, that may just be the most caring thing they can do.
That said, a few incidents the past few months have made me think.
Let's resolve not to transfer our baggage onto someone else, wittingly or unwittingly. And especially to people who should not have anything to do with our own problems.
On the flip side, let us not take up unfair baggage just because we don't want to hurt anyone. Nice guys are good and all but perhaps the really great people know when to be heartless because, sometimes, that may just be the most caring thing they can do.
